WE BOTH CHEATED, WE ARE NOW EVEN - HUSBAND TELLS WIFE

MBABANE - A man is opposing divorce from his wife, claiming that they both cheated and were now at par.

Thembinkosi Nsibande, who is being divorced by Nondumiso Nsibande, informed the court that all he wanted was to reconcile with his wife since he was prepared to learn from the mistakes they both did in their marriage.
After confessing before Magistrate Sifiso Vilakati that he once gave his wife a headache by cheating on her, Thembinkosi said he was praying that he reconciles with his wife, who had allegedly given up on him pending the outcome of the divorce.

He alleged in court that his wife even went to the extent of having a child outside their marriage as well.
Nondumiso had initiated the divorce proceedings against her husband.
The couple had been in and out of court trying to resolve their personal issues before the divorce papers were filed.

“I still love my wife despite the fact that she has a child outside marriage. She forgave me after I cheated on her and so I forgive her for cheating on me too. I think she decided to file for divorce because she thinks she cannot reverse the disgrace she was in. Any person is bound to be tempted,” he said when asked if he still believed he could be with his wife.
“Ushayele mine tinyoni ngako ke ngimtsandza nemaphutsa akhe.”

These are allegations that Thembinkosi made in court and they are yet to be verified.
Narrating how he allegedly discovered his wife’s new relation with a church member who was close to him, Thembinkosi alleged that this happened after reading his wife’s emails.
He alleged that his wife was requesting his love rival to read the messages.

“In her emphasis, my wife said to the man ‘please do my love’. Those days she no longer had time for me,” he alleged.
One day, he alleged that his wife asked him to pick the children up from school as she was rushing to Siphofaneni. He said he picked the children up and returned to his homestead at Hilltop.

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