THE SONG ‘WHEN A MAN LIES’

Sir,

I was relaxing my mind with music in my computer when I discovered that I had an unfamiliar song by R Kelly titled ‘When a man lies’. It just took my whole attention. Listening to that song made me realise that men are the best liars in the world.

Men can do anything and everything just to win a girl’s heart, regardless of whether he is married or not. Men are capable of giving you the best they can, make you feel you are the only girl in the world.

Just take a look at this:
l “I don’t know why my boss suddenly requires that I work on Friday nights, but I have to babe, I promise I will make time for you.” It is highly likely that this man is cheating on you; you can believe he is a hard worker but the reality is that he is satisfying another woman that you don’t know about.

l “Of course, intimacy wasn’t on my mind when I first met you, I am not that shallow.” Even when men pretend intimacy is not on their minds, it is. When a man first becomes acquainted with a woman of interest, the thing on his mind is having sexual intercourse with that woman at some point. If you don’t believe that tell your man you will abstain until marriage, and see if that man’s attention towards you increases or significantly decreases.

l “Babe, of course I am going to marry you some day and build a home with you.” That’s exactly what men say to make you stick around. They always want to make you feel guilty of cheating on them. They say you their wife while they know very well you are just a side chick. Then I ask myself why though? Anyways, it’s in their nature.

l “Babe, I am going to break up with my baby mama because she is not the one for me, but you are.” There’s almost no chance that he will upgrade you to long-term, exclusive status like being his steady girlfriend. Women always get hurt by this, and it really hurts. Holding onto someone who knows that he will never make you a wife, let alone keeping you in their life, it’s more like being used for what you have and who you are.

l “Love, you know how much I love you, how could you ever doubt my love for you and how much I care about you?” Then you ask yourself, does he really care about me? The ‘I love you’ words are the ones that get girls’ hearts crushed into pieces. All womanisers know that the quickest way to endear themselves to a woman is to say ‘I love you’, and those three words are like psychological aphrodisiac for most women.

A man makes you feel loved just by looking at you; he seems so real when he tells you he will never leave you. Then he turns around and breaks your heart like he has never made any promise.
When a man lies, he destroys everything. I am just telling the truth that when a man lies, he destroys a woman’s soul. Men are the kings of lies and that’s it!

Nkosingphile NtshaliNtshali

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