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A lunatic can gain his senses when talking about sex'

23/11/2012 00:00:00 SIBUSISO ZWANE

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MBABANE – Men like sex so much that even a lunatic can become lucid when talking about sex.

This was revealed by Family Life Association (FLAS) Nurse Futhi Dlamini during the PSI Sexual Performance Campaign held at the Swaziland College of Technology (SCOT) on Wednesday night.

Dlamini said this when addressing about 150 students who had attended the session. She said it was true that men waste most of their time thinking about sex.

"It is also normal for men to get the urge to kiss a woman they come across in the streets. Some even imagine having sexual intercourse with that woman." She said a lunatic may become lucid for that moment if a topic about sex came up.

Dlamini said, inherently, men like sex and it was evident when their sex organ became erect. She said their mind immediately switches off and can only think about sex.

Dlamini added that it became easy for a woman to manipulate a man when he reached the stage where he switches off due to thinking a lot about sex. She said; "If a woman were to ask him to give her E5 000, he could give her very easily because his mind in not functioning properly.

Lack of hygiene is number one put-off for women

MBABANE – Lack of hygiene is one of the major things that put women off sex.

This was revealed by Litsemba Letfu Men’s Clinic Nurse Mandlenkhosi Malaza during the PSI Sexual Performance Campaign held at SCOT on Wednesday night.

Malaza was answering a question posed by SCOT student Mduduzi Fakudze who wanted to know how circumcision helped men during sexual intercourse.

He said besides decreasing the chances of contracting HIV/AIDS, it kept the private parts clean.

"One thing women consider a major turn-off during sexual intercourse is when they find that the man is not clean. It is disturbing and stressful to engage in sexual intercourse with a woman who is turned off."

He said the appearance of a circumcised man’s sex organ was appetising to women. He also said that uncircumcised men usually suffer from premature ejaculation because the front (most sensitive) part of their organ easily felt the heat that stimulates ejaculation. He said another advantage of circumcision was that a circumcised man gains more confidence and his sexual performance is improved.

"It is not the physical process of circumcision that improves sexual performance, but the confidence that arises due to the process," he said.

... poor sex performance can affect students academically

MBABANE - Poor sexual performance can have negative effects on students’ academics.

This was revealed by Family Life Association (FLAS) Nurse Futhi Dlamini during the PSI Sexual Performance Campaign that was held at Swaziland College of Technology (SCOT) on Wednesday night.

She said nothing stressed a man more than knowing that he is performing inadequately in bed.

"A man who performs poorly in bed can experience negative effects in school or the workplace."

She said the constant worry about their sexual performance disturbed everything they do as it did not easily leave their minds.

She said this was because sexuality defines who we are, how we embrace sexual activity and how we define ourselves.

She said the only way students can avoid such was to preserve their manhood for the future.

"This can be achieved through abstinence by those who have not started engaging in sex and those who have already started, should at least stick to one partner and practise safe sex," she said.

COMMENTS:

- In all honesty, i say thumbs up to FLAS & PSI for educating us men on circumcision. Does women not think about sex? If not why do they want to get married & have children?. Some men are not desperate for sex, it is annoying to label men as sex pests. Our dignity is lost when women see us on streets because they think we are always desperate for sex, they might think we know nothing except sex. Does this circumcision campaign promoted due to men's sexual petite? WRONG! WRONG!
November 23, 2012, 12:01 pm, cellular

- Well, these nurses do "reveal" a great deal that is nonsense, or just false, don't they? Non-circumcised (intact) men "usually" suffer from premature ejaculation? Tell that to the billions of intact men world wide who don't, or the many circumcised men who do. Nurse Malaza is right that circumcising cuts off the best (most sensitive) part, but this loss of sensation makes control more difficult, not easier. The other false claim is that getting circumcised protects anyone from getting HIV. It certainly doesn't protect women, while condoms protect BOTH partners.
November 23, 2012, 12:00 pm, Hugh7