FATHER’S LOVE BEATS ALL

Sir,

I remember how much I laughed my lungs out not long ago, when someone, who is young, told me he was going to be a father soon.

I never planned to laugh but it just happened. I looked at him waiting for him to say ‘I am kidding’ but that expectation was not successful simply because he was serious. I was concerned about his readiness to be a father.

I feel like responsibility begins in bed, during the royalty occasion, if one fails to use protection, then surely you are ready to have a son or a daughter.

Being a father is not just about affording financially or not; it’s about giving your child all the love that you can give, giving them the very best that you can, striving not to let them have the life that you had, which might be difficult upbringing. Nothing beats the power of love, nothing!

Love

Once you love a person, then you can provide everything and anything for them, not materially but I am talking about happiness here because where there is love, there is joy and peace.

Nothing feels exciting than knowing that as a man, you will be welcoming your flesh and blood into the world. I am not a father and I don’t have children but I am a mother because there is a boy who refers to me as his mother, and that makes me thrilled.

So by that, I can imagine how sweet it is to hold a newborn baby, which is your child, with your hands, it must be the most exciting thing.  One might be scared and obsessed if he was going to be a good father or not, that’s ridiculous, I will say it again and again that nothing beats the power of love, because where there is love, there is warmth and peace.

Love is just the key of every tool that can make a soul happy. Nothing makes me happy than seeing a man walking his child to school or carrying his baby with those cool hands as if he is carrying trillions of diamonds, it’s sweet, although it makes me emotional sometimes.

 Some men are struggling financially, but they still manage to give their children the best of the very best that they have; it then surprises me when affording men abandon their children, their flesh and blood!

How does that even become a possibility? To all men, it takes a real man to do what is right, what is expected of him in society.

Nkosing’phile NtshaliNtshali

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