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IT REALLY HURTS!

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Every human being needs that something that makes it all wide-ranging, some find it and some don’t and not finding it doesn’t really mean it’s the end of life, you just need patience and hope that you will find it and when you do, you won’t deny the joy it brings.


It is a wretched feeling when you invest your time and emotions into someone and remain uncertain of where you stand. When a girl does not know how a guy feels, the answer is most likely along the lines of ‘he likes you, but probably not plentiful’.
It lingers at the back of our minds. He can say sweet things, be open, yet he cannot give us what we want, which is usually a committed relationship. Of course there are possible explanations to justify his behaviour.
Maybe he is under a lot of pressure at work; maybe he was emotionally hurt by an ex and maybe he is terrified of commitment. He likes you but is afraid of your extreme enthusiasm, persistence and clinginess.


Love is just a tricky thing; it varies in intensity and in emotions. It is one of the most beautiful things on planet earth, while sometimes it’s the most horrid thing we’ve ever come to face.
It’s odd how one thing could be the cause of so many contradicting feelings, but that’s what makes love so beautiful. It’s the closest thing to perfection that exists in the world, the only thing that can easily and comfortably encompass good, evil, beautiful and ugly. It’s the closest thing to a flawless whole that has ever claimed to have been part of what we think of happiness, the kind thing that is the beginning of something beautiful, something that breathes love.
However, there is another kind of love, a much darker and sadder kind of love; the love one feels when one loves someone he or she can never and will never have.


The moment when you fight like brother and sister, or best friends, or when you argue, you wish you could say it at that moment but it’s hard. The time when the person you love beseeches you to plan something romantic for his or her girlfriend, you wish it was you and you feel like breaking down. 
Let us be robust and leave it all like that, because what if it wrecks the relationship you have, let it happen naturally just in case they never loved you the way you wanted to. And to you who doesn’t get all of this, you’ll never understand until it happens to you.




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