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WOMEN COMPETE FOR MEN

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Sir,
               
I cannot profess to be learned about all women, so this article is about what I observe in women in my country.


Perhaps because of the shortage of men in the country, women compete for men. In competing they become vindictive and jealous and often use untruths and even deception to further their desire to remain in a relationship, just to have someone support them. They think by getting a child they will always have a meal. Many women, despite knowing that a man is either married or is in a relationship, will target him for what they can get. It is also sad that those men have multiple relationships simultaneously. It appears the men see nothing wrong in this as my country practices polygamy.


I had an opportunity of hearing someone say, as she shared pictures of the wife to her lover, with a friend; “As you can see, there is just no competition!” To me that statement says a great deal about that person besides the tone with which that comment was made. Firstly, she could not have much self worth, for any person who knows her worth would never be satisfied by sharing a man; secondly, for her to have taken a picture of the wife without the wife’s knowledge shows that she acknowledges that the wife comes first, she is only second in the man’s life. Since I believe likes attract, could it be that this mistress too is in multiple relationships simultaneously?


Since energies are moving extremely fast these days, one wonders whether these girls who deliberately leave their underwear in other people’s marital homes expect their lives to open up, find work and actually find a man who will marry them! The intent there is for the wife to find the underwear. The amazing thing about karma is that it does not return what you send out on the same topic; it returns it to you multiplied a million fold, in this instance, where it hurts most.


The malicious tone and words utilised on children about their fathers to release their anger towards the father, either because he has not returned home for a few days or failed to leave money for food, not only aggravates the situation for the speaker will wallow in her anger for days and destroy her health, but this will also have a detrimental psychological effect on the children. Perhaps this could be the reason why many never expect anything good to happen to them. When a sincere, loving and respectful person endeavours to address them in a polite manner, these women and children are not only always on the defensive, but they strike out with venomous remarks to release their frustrations.


One needs only observe the faces of most of the women in my country to realise just how miserable they are. These women do not believe they are capable of supporting themselves and their children without a man.
Anger, maliciousness and lack of self confidence are all traits that hinder one from progressing in all areas of one’s life, for it is impossible to function at one’s best when one is vibrating in alignment with any of these frequencies. To give peak performance one must be totally at peace with self.


Check your thoughts, tones and beliefs.  You can change all of those. You have within you not only the tools but the power to change your life.

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Inalda Jorge-Antonio

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