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IT’S OK TO BE SINGLE TOO

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We all love the idea of being in love and being loved as it makes life complete. Unfortunately there are times where it’s best to be single.


Being in love is the most beautiful thing angikhulumi ke if the feeling is mutual, but what does one do when love hurts?

Do you stay in that relationship just so you are not alone even though uva kutsi uyasha? 
A friend told me about a lady from her church that has been married for a few years. She unfortunately married a man who has a roving eye.


In the 10 years they have been married, he has cheated at least three times with different women who all bore children.
Typical of make lokholwako she is still married to him as she strongly believes in marriage and that one should never divorce until death does them apart as per her vows.


My friend asked what I would do in this situation as I claim to know a lot more about relationships.
Well I don’t, I just have had enough relationships that have taught me a few lessons in life and the fact that I have plenty brothers as a point of reference when it comes to the male species.


If it was me, I would have long left that marriage. The fact that her husband cheated is bad enough but fathering a child with three different women ushadile is beyond prayer I think, sekwecile.


Risk


Not only did he risk her health by sleeping around without protection but he has also increased the financial strain in their marriage.
Technically he has four households to feed because of being careless and not sticking to his vows. I believe in the marriage institution, divorce is always the last resort for any couple, but I believe sometimes it’s necessary, case in point.


Love should never hurt, love is kind and warm, when it starts to cause you pain you should ask yourself if it’s worth it.

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